You spot something near the base of the tail that looks like a grain of rice. It moves. That is the version of this problem people notice.
The far more common version is the one nobody notices at all. A cat carrying a heavy worm burden usually looks completely fine. Good coat, normal appetite, normal behaviour. The signs arrive late, and by then a kitten has already lost growth it will not get back.
Worms and fleas are two problems, joined at one point
Owners tend to file worms and fleas in the same drawer. They are not the same thing, they do not live in the same place, and no single product covers both by default.
Worms live inside the gut. Fleas live in the coat and, mostly, in the house. Different biology, different medicine, different schedule.
There is one place the two meet, and it matters more than anything else in this article. The most common tapeworm in cats cannot infect a cat directly. It has to travel inside a flea. The cat grooms, swallows the flea, and the tapeworm gets in. A cat with tapeworm segments almost always has, or recently had, fleas. Kill the fleas and you remove the tapeworm's ride.

What actually lives in there
Roundworms
Roundworms are the ones most kittens are born into. The larvae sit dormant in the queen's tissue and mobilise when she starts producing milk, so the kitten is infected while nursing. It does not need to go outside, eat anything unusual, or meet another cat.
Heavy burdens produce the classic picture: a thin kitten with a swollen belly, poor growth, an occasional adult worm in vomit or stool. Light burdens produce nothing visible at all.
Roundworms also matter to people. The larvae can migrate through human tissue, and children are the group at risk because they are the ones with hands in the soil and hands in their mouths. Deworming the cat is a household measure, not only a cat measure.
Tapeworms
The rice grain segments near the tail or in the bedding are tapeworm. Each segment is a packet of eggs that has broken off and crawled out.
Two routes get them in. Fleas, which is by far the most common in a Bangkok apartment. And hunting, if a cat catches and eats rodents or lizards.
Hookworms
Hookworms attach to the gut wall and feed on blood. Less common than roundworms in cats, more damaging per worm. In a small kitten, blood loss to hookworms causes pale gums and weakness before anything appears in the stool.
When to start deworming a kitten, and how often
Because roundworm larvae come through the milk, deworming starts early. International parasite guidance begins treatment at around three weeks of age and repeats every two weeks until the kitten is eight to nine weeks old, then monthly until six months.
Thai clinics commonly start a little later, around six weeks with an oral product, and repeat from there. Either approach works as long as the repeats happen. A single dose kills the worms present that day and does nothing about the larvae that mature next week. That is why the schedule is a schedule.
Spot-on products that include a worming component are usually licensed from around two months of age. Check the weight range on the pack, because these are dosed by band, and an underdosed kitten is an untreated kitten.
If you are unsure where to start, start now and repeat in two weeks. For a kitten already past three weeks, the age at the first dose matters less than whether the second one happens.

Tablet or spot-on
Both work. They are not interchangeable.
Tablets are dosed precisely to weight and generally give the widest coverage of intestinal worms, including tapeworm. The obstacle is administration, and a dose the cat spits out is not a dose.
Spot-ons are applied as a few drops onto the skin at the back of the neck. Depending on the product they cover fleas, ticks, ear mites, and some intestinal worms. Very few spot-ons treat tapeworm, which is the gap owners miss most often.
Read what the product actually covers rather than assuming a monthly spot-on is doing everything. Many cats in Thailand are on a good flea product and have never been dewormed for tapeworm in their lives.
Fleas, and the ones you cannot see
The fleas on the cat are the smallest part of the problem. Adult fleas on the animal are commonly cited as around five percent of the total population. The other ninety-five percent is eggs, larvae and pupae sitting in the sofa, the rug, the gaps between floorboards and the cat's favourite sleeping spot.
Eggs are laid on the cat and fall off everywhere the cat goes. They hatch, feed on debris in the carpet, pupate, and wait. Pupae are the difficult stage: they survive treatment, and they emerge when they detect movement and warmth.
That biology explains the thing owners find maddening. You treat, the fleas disappear for a week, and then they are back. Nothing failed. The next wave simply hatched. Clearing an established infestation takes consistent monthly treatment across two to three months, plus washing bedding hot and vacuuming the places the cat sleeps. Treat the cat once and stop, and the carpet restocks it.

Why the medication goes on the back of the neck
The site is not arbitrary. It is the one patch of skin a cat cannot reach with its tongue.
A cat that licks a spot-on off gets two problems at once. The treatment is gone, so the parasites survive. And the cat has swallowed a concentrated insecticide, which at best causes drooling and a miserable evening.
Part the fur so the liquid lands on skin rather than sitting on the coat, apply high on the neck at the base of the skull, and keep multi cat households separated for a few hours so nobody grooms anybody else. That last step is the one people forget.
Never use a dog flea product on a cat. Permethrin, common in canine spot-ons, is severely toxic to cats and this is a genuinely frequent emergency.
The check that catches it early
Two minutes a week is enough.
Run a fine metal comb through the fur along the lower back and tail base, and tap the debris onto a damp sheet of white paper. Ordinary dirt stays dark. Flea dirt is digested blood, and it spreads into a rust red halo as it dissolves. That test tells you the answer before you ever see a live flea.
Check the gums for colour, look inside the ears for dark waxy build up, and glance at the stool and the fur around the anus for the rice grain segments. A cat that is scooting along the floor is telling you something, and it is usually either the anal glands or a tapeworm.
Does raw feeding cause worms
This comes up constantly, so it is worth answering plainly.
Intestinal worms in a house cat come from four places: the mother's milk, swallowed fleas, hunted prey, and contaminated environment. A commercially prepared frozen raw diet is not on that list. Hunting is, which is why an outdoor hunter needs deworming more often than an indoor cat does.
What raw feeding does change is your ability to notice. Stool on a raw diet is small, firm and low odour, which makes anything unusual in it obvious immediately.
What this looks like at a working cattery
Pau and Sun breed at Bangkok Cats, a world championship cattery, where dozens of animals share airspace and a single flea would spread through the whole population in days. The protocol there is not clever. It is repetitive: every cat on the same monthly external parasite product on the same date, kittens dewormed on a fixed schedule from the first weeks, bedding washed hot every week.
The lesson from that operation transfers directly to a one cat apartment. Parasite control is not a treatment you apply when you see a problem. It is a calendar entry you keep when nothing seems wrong.
Common questions
How often should an adult indoor cat be dewormed?
Most vets recommend every three to six months for a strictly indoor cat with no fleas. A cat that goes outside, hunts, or lives in a multi cat household usually needs it every one to three months. Your vet will set the interval based on risk, not on a fixed rule.
My cat is indoors and has no fleas. Does it still need deworming?
Yes, though less often. Roundworm infection from the mother persists into adulthood, eggs arrive on shoes and clothing, and any cat that hunts a cockroach or a gecko in the apartment has taken a risk. Twice a year is a reasonable baseline.
Can I use a dog flea treatment on my cat?
No. Many dog spot-ons contain permethrin, which is severely toxic to cats and can cause tremors and seizures. Buy a product labelled for cats and dosed for your cat's weight, and treat a permethrin exposure as an emergency.
Are worms in cats dangerous to people?
Roundworm larvae can migrate through human tissue, and young children are the most at risk. Regular deworming, cleaning the litter tray daily, and washing hands after handling it reduce that risk to near zero.
I treated for fleas and they came back a week later. Why?
Because the fleas you treated were a small part of the population. Eggs and pupae in the carpet and bedding hatch in waves for weeks afterwards. Keep treating monthly for two to three months and wash bedding hot in between.
How do I know if the worming worked?
You usually cannot tell by looking, which is the point. If your cat had visible segments or worms, they should stop appearing within days. For anything else, a faecal test at the vet is the only real confirmation.